I love cats. It seemed we always had cats in our home, and I fondly remember cuddling up with them after school, in the evenings, and in the lazy mornings of weekends. Their soft purrings were so comforting to me. Plus, as an only child, I never lacked for a “companion” if my neighborhood friends weren’t available to play.
Today, as I was sitting on the sofa, my latest kitty, Meichan, jumped up and sat on my lap. This was an epic moment for the two of us. Why? Meichan was a rescue cat and while she tolerated a gentle pet, she didn’t seem to enjoy the physical contact from being held. We didn’t know much about her except that her previous owner had moved out of the country and dropped her off at an animal shelter. Fortunately, I was in search of a new addition for our family since we had just recently lost our beloved Mochi, another rescue kitty that died suddenly. Although we only had Mochi for a little over a year, she left a few broken hearts behind when she passed.
Meichan was a 3-year-old orange tabby, who loved being with people, but as with most cats, being social was completely on her terms. As she warmed to us, she would rub against our legs or sleep across the sofa from us, but cuddling was not in her character. She loved our company, but always kept herself a wee bit distant, which explains why today, her behavior delightfully surprised me.
After the initial shock of having her plop herself on to my lap, I took full advantage of the moment, hugging and cuddling her, while whispering lots of “I love you’s” into her ears. Amazingly, she simply sat there, allowing me to indulge myself in pouring out my affections upon her. Even after I was stopped, thinking she was getting impatient with me, she stayed perched on my lap, content as could be.
As I gazed at her sitting there, I was struck by how much I loved her. Despite her times of zooming around the house in pre-dawn hours, making “biscuits” on my head in the middle of the night, shedding her fur everywhere, and being a very picky eater demanding her treats continuously, I loved her tremendously. Meichan doesn’t really “do” anything for me or my family, but I truly love her. It was then that I realized I had an unconditional love for her… it was unearned and nothing would change it.
Then it hit me! This was a perfect picture of God’s love for me. There is absolutely nothing I can “do” for God that He cannot do for Himself. I often come to Him on my terms. I ask a lot from Him. I forget to talk with Him every day, and I disappoint Him in my actions, but He still loves me. In fact, in Jeremiah 31:3, God states, “…Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love…” That means God will love me FOREVER!
The realization that God’s love for me is eternal gives me the greatest peace I could ever have. To understand that no matter what happens in this world, no matter what I do or say, no matter what difficulties I face in life, no matter if I fail Him repeatedly, He will never cease to love me. To be able to trust God at His Word gives me the perfect peace He has promised in Isaiah 26:3. “Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee: because he trusteth in thee.”
Best lesson I ever learned from my cat.
O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure—
the saints’ and angels’ song.
(from “The Love of God” by Frederick M. Lehman)
“In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” – 1 John 4:9-10
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Find it hard to believe God could love you unconditionally? He proved it at the cross.