
Scripture: “So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.” – John 8:7
Examination of Chapter: This chapter begins with the woman caught in the act of adultery. The religious leaders bring her to Jesus tempting Him to act. Instead, Jesus remains silent, just writing in the dirt. When the men continued to pester Him, the Lord simply says to let the guiltless one begin the execution. One by one, they leave without hurling a single stone.
Application: If you’ve been in church for any amount of time, you’ve probably heard someone say that we should not judge others, and most Christians would agree with that statement because that’s what Jesus warned us against doing in Matthew 7:1 when He said, “Judge not, that ye be not judged.”
As I briefly thought about this the other day, I didn’t really have any concerns about being judgmental until the Holy Spirit began to speak to my heart about that issue. Of course, my defenses kicked in. Me? Judgmental? No, I don’t think I point fingers and look down on someone who acts differently, dresses differently, speaks differently, etc., than I do… do I? After all, I know I’m a sinner myself and have my own struggles in my Christian walk. However, the Spirit revealed something quite contrary to my self-righteous thinking.
After some serious self-examination, I found I had been unintentionally judging another person. The worse part was that I realized this wasn’t the first time I had done this… ouch! In this instance, I wasn’t gossiping about this individual, but my thoughts were definitely not understanding and sympathetic. Instead, my mind had just wandered to something that was happening, and I started wondering, “How in the world could a Christian could do certain things that would hurt others?” I thought, “What’s wrong with her? How could she?” In that moment of self-realization, I saw my prideful sin in those seemingly innocent thoughts.
I know that judging others is not what God wants from me. But those little thoughts of negativity about others that are fed by my pride sometimes sneak in and invade my mind! My eyes were opened to the understanding that my being judgmental is a direct result of my pride… a subconscious attitude of “holier than thou”. In Luke 6:42, Jesus taught that we need to take a close look at ourselves before we dare to point out faults in others. “Either how canst thou say to thy brother, Brother, let me pull out the mote that is in thine eye, when thou thyself beholdest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou see clearly to pull out the mote that is in thy brother’s eye.” That is definitely not what I hoped to find in my self-examination, but there it was – pride rearing its ugly head.
Judgment of others creeps into my life when I least expect it, and then my pride seems to nurture it. For example, in a store, I may see a mom whose children are running around, and immediately, I wonder why that mom can’t control her kids. After all, I didn’t have that problem when I was raising my children (how easy to forget all my trials and tribulations in parenting!) Instead, I should have whispered a quick prayer that God would help that mother through her day. Another example is when I saw a child come to church looking disheveled, and I wondered why a parent would send a child to church without combing their hair. Again, I wouldn’t have sent my kids to church without being in their Sunday best. (Again, my past memories were greatly clouded by my deceptive pride.) I should have been grateful that the child was allowed to ride the church bus and come to Sunday school. Those “little” snippets of judgment are the seeds of hypocrisy and prejudice that grow into the invasive weeds of sin. Genesis 6:5 tells us what God saw in the hearts of man just prior to the Great Flood. “And GOD saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.” It is the same today as it was then.
Fortunately, when the Holy Spirit convicts us of any sin, He also provides the way the deal with it. First, we must recognize the sin for what it is instead of making excuses for my thoughts (or actions) in order to repent. Our sorrow for our sin should compel us to seek God’s forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 reminds me, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” I am so grateful that my heavenly Father is so loving and forgiving… every single time I go to Him on my knees asking for forgiveness and restoration. Psalm 51:10 is an excellent way to start. “Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.” The beautiful truth is that God will do exactly that.
Second, we must pray for the individual we have sinned against in our judgmental thoughts. Ephesians 6:18 instructs us to be “Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints.” When I intercede for another person, it pleases God. Paul wrote in 1 Timothy 2:1 and 3, “I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men;” and “For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour.” 1 Samuel 12:23 even states that neglecting to pray for others is a sin against God. “Moreover as for me, God forbid that I should sin against the LORD in ceasing to pray for you:” It is such a comfort and an encouragement to know that someone is praying for me in times when I am struggling. I need to do the same for others.
Third, I must listen to God and, if He directs, offer to help someone in their struggle. Galatians 6:2 reminds us to “Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” To bear another’s burden can be accomplished in many ways. Praying for someone, offering encouragement through a card or phone call, stepping in to physically help… these are just three ways to help “bear one another’s burdens”. It’s amazing what a kind word or a hug can do to lift someone’s spirit. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 states, “Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.” I know that when I am the recipient of a hug or a few sweet words, my heart begins to smile again.
It is inevitable there will continue to be times I will struggle with occasions of being judgmental, but I also know that God is constantly working on me. He is helping me become less judgmental and more loving, understanding, and interceding just as Jesus is toward each one of us. Philippians 1:6 gives me sweet assurance of this. “Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ:” Romans 14:13 states “Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.” With the help of the Lord, may I never be a stumbling block to someone else’s faith! Instead, my desire is to be a blessing and an encouragement as so many are to me!
Meditation:
- Take a moment and ask God to show you areas in which you’ve harbored judgment against another, and then seek His forgiveness. Then take time to pray for that person… that God would strengthen them, help them do what is right in His sight, and be encouraged.









